when I was 21

would u do

I Learned Today

Life Education never stops

is he about

My complex connection with men

Gay men. Straight men. Men.

about finessing

The Shortest Presidency and the Whig Party

For something different. Its Presidents Day and I am talking about a president no one talks about, William Henry Harrison, our 9th President and the m...

my thoughts on online couples

Making content as a couple and making it your identity. Also "having" to announce you are a couple in social media! 

should I do about a situation

People be triggered by others truths

about communication

I’m feeling good

Its Jan 2026, so far so good! 

I was 18... I needed the money

now I’m attractive?

Grief comes in waves

I’m not Superman

I want to do it all, but I cant 

about setting boundaries again

Setting boundaries during a tough time in life can be extra hard! 

my upbringing serves me well …today

I had an epiphany

about setting boundaries

are people thinking about roles in relationships

some people see relationship roles very oddly! 

Happy birthday? Daughter

3 years later and trying to use me

An unexpected text...

about researching a person before you try to sell them something

Don't try to sell me your coaching program when I have my own I am trying to sell! LOL 
And etc....

7 years later

Number One Show

Unfriending one of my first media clients

about others feelings

Navigating what you are going thru and who you can talk about it to.

getting up and out

James is changing and creating a habit! 
Music by James Lott Jr

Air conditioning

James finally got an AC unit!
Song by James Lott Jr

about me today

Mid august 2025 update! 

About online relationship sharing

When people go from single into a relationship and make all their post about the relationship. 

People do in Hollywood

An epiphany about friendship on a Sunday morning

JLJ has an ephipany on.... a sunday morning! 

getting older is a trip

Two guys and a mother

JLJ has three different things going on at the same time! 

about two people from my past

Two people come back into my orbit. 

James, I hope all is well

when I get this message from a friend, I share with you what I say now! 

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JLJ answers a question about himself related to June's Pride month! 

about friends and politics

when a close friends politics and attitude drastically changes.